In the social evolution of a new psychological syndrome, there
may be no moment more important than the appearance of its first
celebrity victims. A star or maybe a fading star "discloses" a
"troubling diagnosis" that he or she has "struggled with" in "silence."
The star receives warm studio-audience applause and big Hollywood
hugs for "bravery," for "just wanting to help others in the same
situation." (In the case of rockers and drugs, the evidence of
a "struggle" is often kind of thin; more often it looks as if
they partied really hard and then slacked off a bit when they
turned 50 or 60 or the drummer died.) Meanwhile, as the celeb
makes the rounds of the talk shows or "sits down" with People
magazine, the syndrome itself moves up in the world, acquiring
a new high profile, maybe a catchy acronym and a presumption that
it is "far more widespread" than we ever realized.
This is the stage we have now reached with "social anxiety disorder,"
also called "social phobia" and colloquially known as shyness.
The condition had been identified in the D.S.M., the bible of
psychiatric diagnosis, as far back as 1980. But until recently,
it was thought to be a rare disorder, characterized not only by
a distracting nervousness at parties or before giving a speech,
say, but also by a powerful desire to avoid such situations altogether.
Then in 1999, buoyed by the success of the new psychotropic drugs,
the pharmaceutical company SmithKline Beecham began marketing
its antidepressant Paxil as a treatment for social phobia. Public
awareness campaigns equated the syndrome with an allergy to people.
Experts cited alarming new statistics -- around 13 percent of
us were socially phobic, for example -- and magazines dished up
the requisite alarmist trend stories. A set of traits and behaviors,
at least some of which were once regarded as neutral or even desirable,
re-emerged as a pathology -- a function of brain chemistry, amenable
to and indeed demanding pharmacological manipulation.
Enter the socially anxious celebrities. Donny Osmond was one
of the first to come forward with a full-scale confessional. Recently,
for some reason, it has been athletes. The English soccer star
David Beckham, who is married to a Spice Girl, published a memoir
last fall in which he admitted to being painfully shy. And last
month, the New Orleans Saints running back Ricky Williams told
reporters that his social anxiety disorder had been officially
diagnosed and that he is now medicated for it. The syndrome, he
said, accounted for his unusual behavior: keeping his helmet on
during rookie-year interviews, curling up inside his locker. It
was touching, actually, to hear Williams's teammates rally around
him. "We're all family," a defensive tackle said. "If one of us
hurts, all of us hurt." But it was also a reminder that it is
much easier to turn on the spigots of empathy and attention these
days when you can cite a diagnosed imbalance in brain chemistry
rather than an eccentricity, a character flaw or an economic disadvantage.
In two years, then, social anxiety disorder has picked up all
it needs -- a psychotropic drug of choice, an army of advocates,
a handful of celebrity sufferers -- to sustain itself as a widely
recognized syndrome. And for some people, people truly incapacitated
by their fears of others' disapproval, that is a blessing. It
will make it easier for them to seek help and perhaps obtain relief.
And yet, there are always costs to medicalizing what is not,
essentially, a medical condition. If extremely shy people require
a pill, maybe mildly shy people could be improved by one, too.
How about a few more outgoing types in the office -- fewer Eeyores,
more Tiggers? Advocates of the new diagnosis are forever saying
that social phobia is worse than mere shyness, but in practice
the line between them is fluid, depending as it does on highly
subjective judgments about whether a person's social reticence
causes significant "distress." As an article on the subject in
a recent issue of American Family Physician acknowledges, social
phobia can be tricky to diagnose because "the types of fears and
avoidance commonly associated with" it "are, to some degree, experienced
by most people." I took the social phobia inventory, a self-administered
test offered on the Facts for Health Web site among other places,
including Paxil's site, and on one afternoon got the verdict that
I was not socially phobic and on the next that I might be and
should consult my clinician.
The truth is that shyness is not exactly an objectively measurable
condition -- or trait or whatever it is. A generation ago, personality
assessments folded it into the general category of introversion
and characterized neither introversion nor extroversion as pathological.
In surveys taken in the 1970's and again in the 1990's, the percentage
of Americans claiming to be shy jumped from 40 to nearly 50 percent,
which suggests not some mysterious epidemic of shyness, however
you define it, but more likely a shift in social values. Maybe
more people feel shy in a culture in which the omnipresent media
is so full of the aggressively unshy. Maybe in another generation
or so, we'll find ourselves sorely missing the meek and the mild,
the stoic and the taciturn among us. Is somebody out there inventing
the drug to treat excessive perkiness?
Copyright 2001, The New York Times Magazine
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