Remember the Year of the Woman? Well, it's beginning to look as
if 2000 will be the Year of the Wife. Elizabeth Dole is nearing a run for the Presidency,
to the delight of many Republican strategists. And Hillary Clinton is -- famously,
teasingly -- thinking about the Senate. The part of me that relishes a cinematic plot turn
in real life loves the very idea. These are, after all, perfect big-screen story lines. In
this President Dole story, Bob would be self-sacrificing husband, consigned to wistful
observation of his wife's rising star -- because, hey, it's her turn now. In the Senator
Clinton story, Hillary would be the girl scorned in high school who shows up at her
reunion in splendor, humbling her old tormentors and winning a seat on the Appropriations
Committee while "I Will Survive" crescendos on the soundtrack. You'd have to be
a killjoy of the dourest hue not to see the fun in it.
And I'm not, really. But I was a teen-ager in the 70's. And it's in the spirit of that
era's egalitarian feminism -- the very one in which Hillary Clinton, cosmetic-free Yale
law student, came of intellectual age -- that I find this latest brand of political
dynasticism lamentable. Sure, that period produced some risible cultural flotsam, but its
emphasis on female autonomy and possibility was bracing. (Still, I drew the line at
gynecological self-examination courses.) That sensibility is precisely what's missing from
the new wifeocracy, in which a woman's own political career is an outgrowth of her
husband's.
What does it say about American political culture that our two most promising female
candidates derive much, if not all, of their star power through marriage? Yes, I know, the
ultracompetent Dole was Secretary of Transportation during the Reagan Administration and
Secretary of Labor during the Bush Administration. But Samuel Skinner and John R. Block
and Terrel H. Bell and Lauro F. Cavazos were all Cabinet Secretaries in those
Administrations, too, and nobody's talking about what formidable Presidential candidates
they would make. As for Hillary, she probably should have run for office on her own
strengths years ago. Now, though, both women are, in the old-fashioned sense, better
halves.
We know them because they filled the role of political wife, which, like the image of
Betty Crocker or Aunt Jemima, keeps getting updated but never really transformed. We like
them for the ways they complete their husbands' images, often with traditionally feminine
virtues. In the 1996 campaign, Elizabeth Dole was supposed to be the warm people-person,
the one who waded into campaign audiences, Oprah-style, and reminded her husband to smile
more, whereas Bob Dole was aloof and self-contained. (This was before he started chatting
to the nation about erectile dysfunction.) Hillary Clinton, meanwhile, has achieved her
maximum popularity by appearing to compensate for all her husband's shortcomings: since
Gennifer, and Paula, and Monica, and Juanita, she looks more upright, more like the
embodiment of beleaguered wifely morality than ever.
And yet, to run successfully, both women will have to show sides of themselves we have
not seen lately, and that may not fit our fantasy of who they are in relation to their
husbands. Hillary Clinton won't be able to stand above politics and Bill, as an icon of
dignity and forbearance. She'll have to run a tough campaign that may remind voters of the
old sharp-elbowed Hillary they didn't like quite so well. And Elizabeth Dole's sugary,
Southern charm will only carry her so far; who wants a magnolia, even a steel magnolia,
for President?
I can't resist the the old feminist rhetorical trick of reversing the equation. Could a
man launch a national political career primarily as the "husband of"? Would he
want to? Not likely. For one thing, female politicians don't tend to marry men with
ambitions to office. (They often seem to hook up with businessmen, who stay behind the
scenes and raise money for their campaigns. Sometimes, of course, those business
connections are trouble: think of Geraldine Ferraro, Enid Waldholtz, Carol Moseley-Braun.)
More important, though, political husbands barely constitute a category unto themselves.
They're not expected to affix themselves to their wifes' sides and wave that parade-float
half-wave. We'd think it was slightly embarrassing if they did. And so, paradoxically,
they cannot turn marital status into political capital quite as easily. If a woman were to
be elected President, no First Gentleman could maintain a Dennis Thatcher-like low
profile. But so far, display-quality political husbands are an untested entity.
In a way, the same double standard applies to all working couples. A husband who
launches his career by drawing on his wife's connections (like men who earn less than
their wives, or who stay at home) makes many people uneasy -- even people who would be
surprised to hear themselves admit it. What's the deal with him, anyway, they wonder? Why
can't he stand on his own two feet? Most of us are reluctant to ask such questions about
Hillary Clinton and Elizabeth Dole. Maybe, in the name of fairness, we shouldn't be.
Copyright 1999, The New York Times Magazine
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